BDSM&Kink Therapy

BDSM & Kink Therapy

Affirming, Sex-positive and Consent-Centered

Kink and BDSM are powerful expressions of intimacy, identity, and healing—but too often misunderstood, even in therapy. In this space, your desires are not judged. They are respected, explored, and honored. As a certified sex therapist and trauma specialist, I provide therapy for individuals and couples in the kink/BDSM community seeking support with identity, relationships, healing, and integration.

Who Is Kink & BDSM Therapy For?

This work is for you if:

You’re exploring Dominance, submission, or power exchange dynamics

You identify as a Switch, Top, bottom, or curious kinkster You’re in a D/s relationship and want to strengthen trust, safety, and connection

You’re processing trauma related to kink play—or want to ensure your play is trauma-informed

You struggle with shame, secrecy, or fear of being misunderstood

You’re seeking a therapist who gets it—without judgment, assumptions, or outdated models

Common Topics We Can Explore Together

Creating and navigating BDSM contracts and consent agreements

 Power exchange and emotional intimacy in D/s relationships

 Safe words, aftercare, limits, and boundary work

 Healing from ruptures, trauma, or non-consensual past experiences

 Integrating kink and sexuality with attachment and relationship needs

 Building trust, emotional regulation, and embodiment in scenes

 Polyamory, open relationships, and alternative structures within kink

My Approach: Sex-Positive, Trauma-Aware, and Empowering

I blend cutting-edge modalities such as:

 EMDR Therapy for trauma resolution and nervous system regulation

 IFS (Internal Family Systems) for working with parts related to kink identity or shame

 Somatic Experiencing to help reconnect with the body and cultivate safety

 Couples and relationship therapy tailored for power dynamics, poly/kink, and emotional repair

You deserve a therapist who doesn’t flinch at your truth—but instead helps you integrate it.

Why Kink-Affirming Therapy Matters

Many clients come to me after being invalidated or pathologized by past therapists. Here,

your lifestyle, sexual preferences, and relationship structures are not treated as problems.

Instead, they are part of your wholeness.

This Is a Space Where:

 Kink is not “a red flag”—it’s a conversation

 Healing and pleasure can coexist

 Power dynamics can be empowering

 Your consent, identity, and autonomy are foundational

Let’s Work Together

You don’t need to hide or educate your therapist.

You just need to show up—and be met with curiosity, competence, and care.

Schedule your consultation today. contact me to learn more about working together.